If you are anything like me (perish the thought!), your prayer time looks something like this:
You’re knelt before your bed, probably tempted to lean over onto your elbows but straighten your lumbar region and flex your core to endure the posture-filled prayer stance that joins you (ever so slightly) with Christ’s cross. After getting over the minuscule pain, you start off with one spiritual foot into the direction of God’s presence. You get so giddy that you start showering Him with requests, praise, hymns, maybe even a few curse words if you had a bad day. In any event, the first part of your prayer is filled with your words… and so is the middle…. and the end….
I got a wonderful idea when I was praying in this way: if I want to be more like God, perhaps I too should shut up and listen.
I took a page out of my Father’s book and, for the past week, have done as little speaking as humanly possible. While most people looked at me funny because I was abnormally silent in the presence, it turned out to be an epic week. I learned about their deepest desires, their needs and what makes them genuinely happy.
The best part- I listened as they solved their own problems through their own words. By talking themselves through it, they became very satisfied with their discoveries and then thanked me (for doing absolutely nothing).
And so it is with prayer. I think God’s silence speaks more than his words ever could. That’s why, when I think about the Bible, I think about those written words as great pieces of advice, but there is so much that remains unwritten. It is like outer space, we know a lot about it, but there is so much more to be discovered.
The only way to discover anything, then, is through silence, His and ours, because seeping through the barrier of words grows the profound roots of Truth.
So shut up every once in a while. In doing so, you’ll know exactly when you should speak up.