I recently came across a post titled I’m getting pregnant on purpose to piss off my parents and saw this in the combox:
“I have to agree with you, We are all animals and if kids want to have sex, just like dogs, bonobos or bunnies, they will so it’s best that they are prepared to have it as safely as they can.”
Ok, before I begin debunking this claim, I’m not looking for controversy, but I will probably get it. Here it goes:
I’ll start with some wicked intelligent truth from St. Thomas Aquinas to help me out. If it is too wordy for you, skip it and go to my explanation below.
“As we see if we reflect on the order of things, the addition of a greater perfection causes variation in the species of a nature. Thus, a thing (such as a plant) that not only exists but lives, difers in species from a thing that merely exists (like a rock).
And that which exists and lives and feels (such as an animal), differs in species from the plant, which merely exists and lives. Likewise a being that exists, lives, feels, and understands (namely, a human), differs in species from the brute animal, which merely exists, lives, and feels…
According to the true teaching of the Catholic Faith, Christ had a real body of the same nature as ours, a true rational soul, and, together with these, perfect deity…
The closer any creature draws to God, the more it shares in His goodness and the more abundantly it is filled with gifts infused by Him. Thus he who comes closer to a fire shares to a greater extent in its heat.”
Plants exist and live.
Animals exist, live, and feel.
Humans exist, live, feel and understand.
Jesus exists, lives, feels, understands and is God.
The closer we get to Jesus, then, the more like Him we become.
What does this have to do with sex? Everything.
If we believe sex is merely an animal instinct, humanity takes a step backwards. We become more animal-like and less like Christ in whose image and likeness we were created.
But if we define sex as a moral, holy act whose prime goal is to give oneself to another out of love (and to co-construct the miracle of life with God), we become more like God who, as St. John tells us, is love (1 John 4:8). The more we become like God, the more we draw closer to His original design for us and, essentially, the more human (and God-like) we become.
Want to know more about the sanctity of sex? Check out 1flesh.org to see how a few sex-abstaining Catholic teens are changing the world.
What about you? What do you think?